last few days have been trying…. And    I guess I should try refraiming …

  • I have wonderful friends that offered us a place to stay 
  • I have a great friend that is there for me and supports me in so many ways
  • We had amazing sex last night, really got to connect with each other 
  • My kids have adjusted to the new home
  • I got a new mattress from my ex-h in place of the one I left him
  • The sun was shining and the days were warm
  • I cooked with the boys and made cookies, which is an activity they really enjoy 
  • I managed to calm down the younger boy when he had his meltdown and hug him and hold him
  • He then showed me how much he loves me by telling me that everything he touches is mine and his
  • The older one yesterday said that he slept in so I could spend more time with friendlover in bed
  • Both of the boys helped with cleaning the house 
  • My internet is working fine

So today is a new day and I choose to take it as it comes and try not to judge myself if I feel emotions, rather try to ride them and remember that this too shall pass 


1 Comment (+add yours?)

  1. Melanie
    Aug 27, 2015 @ 03:25:06

    wow that’s a bloody good 24 hours!

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