Frustrated…


so… Ranting .. Why is it that each time my kids spend time with others ..(ie their dad & his g-friend) when I get back they explode with emotion…almost like they had been keeping them in, all of them, suppressed until I got home and they felt safe to express them…

It’s like all the frustration comes out once I’m there…it’s like they finally can let go…

It’s so frustrating…. I mean it’s so hard for me to accept that when they are not with me they don’t get to express and they keep all the emotions (especially the negative ones) bottled up till they know it’s safe to let them out with me… 

Urgh! I m better now.. We survived without me blowing up… Cause I know the drill……but I so wish I wasn’t the only one they unload to…

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